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Tuesday, October 31, 2017

The Main General Properties Of Medicinal Herbs

Herbal remedies
All known medicinal herbs have three main therapeutic powers. Those include building, stimulating and cleansing properties. Many modern therapeutic techniques involve detoxification on the first stage, followed by taking advantage from stimulating and building properties of medicinal herbs.
Detoxification or cleansing properties of medicinal herbs mean assistance in removing chemical waste products from your body. As a result of daily activities of our body systems and organs some toxins are built up. They can irritate or infect our body organs, that is why toxins should be removed from body tissues. When talking about detoxification, usually it is related to such organs as lungs, kidneys, bowels, skin and so on. Medicinal herbs can be used to stimulate natural cleansing processes in our body.
Medicinal HerbsAs medicinal herbs as rich in natural enzyme, minerals, vitamins and other phytochemicals, we use them as an element of our nutrition in order to help our body maintain its functions, renovate its tissues and improve the quality of our skin, hair, nails, teeth and bones, strengthen our immunity and keep away from many diseases and ailments. This is the essence of building function of medicinal herbs. In other words, building property means using nutritional properties of medicinal herbs for the good of our body.
Stimulating powers of herbal medicines and medicinal herbs are also very valuable. In particular, one of the most used stimulating properties of herbs is blood flow stimulation (cayenne pepper, capsicum and other herbal remedies), which is very effective solution for such problems as hair loss, dental problems and many more. Such powers as tonifying or oxidizing are also supposed to be stimulating because they help improve the function of body organs. Stimulating property can be used in a long-term period and boost our overall health to a great extent.

Barberry (Berberis vulgaris)

Barberry
Barberry, or European barberry, is a known medicinal herb which has been used for many centuries and valued for its numerous health benefits. Barberry is a shrub that grows in warm regions of Europe, and its fruits, leaves, roots, and bark are used to make special natural remedies for various health conditions. It is possible to see a barberry bush growing in wild setting, in the lanes and marshlands somewhere close to water, or it can be cultivated in gardens and farms by those who like this amazing gift of our Mother Nature and want to benefit from the known therapeutic powers of barberry. It is also reported that barberry remedies are very popular in Russia (where barberry fruits are used for making jams and various sweet beverages), and in India (where some products of this plant are used as the ingredients for various home made cosmetics and beauty products).
These natural remedies are known for their high content of chemical berberine. It is considered to be the main ingredient and the key substance of barberry-based remedies responsible for the multitude of therapeutic effects. According to many official organizations of Europe and the United States, barberry and barberry products are considered quite safe, however, there are warnings that using this natural remedy can cause heartburn in some people. Specialists recommend to avoid this kind of products for breastfeeding and pregnant women, as well as for those children who are prone to allergies. However, generally using the remedies and various products made from barberry is safe.  The available forms of barberry include tinctures, ointments, capsules, and liquid extracts. Those of you whoa are wondering about miraculous properties and health benefits of barberry bush products can check out the list of the most important ones of those below:
Barberry Bush 
  •  Barberry is a very popular remedy for various disorders of digestive system, including diarrhea, indigestion, bacterial infections in intestines, stomach cramps, and many more.
  • It was found out that barberry leaves and fruits infusion has very powerful natural antibiotic properties and can be used as an alternative to pharmaceuticals.
  • Barberry has excellent anti-inflammatory properties and can be very effectively used against a great number of infections. It is possible to achieve great effects by using barberry when fighting against respiratory infections, in particular, for sinusitis, bronchitis, sore throat, the flu, and so on.
  • There is plenty of evidence to the fact that anti-inflammatory properties of this natural remedy can be used to reduce pains and other symptoms linked to rheumatoid arthritis, as well as a natural relief for low-back and mid-back pains.
  • Besides, barberry lotion or simple infusion can work great to improve our skin health and prevent numerous unwanted skin conditions, starting from acne and ending up even with fungus.
  • Anti-fungal properties of barberry products are very powerful, but not many people actually know that.
  • Consuming barberry products regularly can be a great solution to treat and prevent various liver problems, including quite serious chronic ones.
  • Barberry products assist in improving blood circulation and are considered very good for preventing hypertension. Therefore, by using these natural remedies we can substantially strengthen our heart health and prevent diseases like heart attack, heart disease, etc.
  • This natural remedy is known for its calming and relaxing properties, so it can be used to relieve the symptoms of stresses, anxiety, depression, as well as to promote sleep and so on.
  • Barberry bush fruits are known for their high content of vitamin C, therefore barberry products are recommended as an effective natural boost for immune system function.
  • Barberry products can be also used to prevent gallbladder and spleen diseases, kidney and urinary tract disorders, and also to improve appetite and prevent heartburn.

Health Benefits Of Grape Leaves


Benefits of Grape Leaves Grape leaves are very well known as a natural remedy with quite a good number of health benefits. Grape leaves are used in many nations of South Europe and the Middle East for cooking: in particular, grape leaves staffed with rice, meat with onions, or some other types of filling are very popular meals recommended for a healthy Mediterranean diet plan. In modern United States, it is hardly possible to find those who know about excellent nutritional properties and advantages of consuming grape leaves. At the same time, it is still possible to see bottled or canned grape leaves to be used for cooking meals or for preparing one or another type of herbal remedies. According to the regulations of the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services, adding grape leaves (fresh or cooked) to your daily diet is a very smart and healthy choice for all modern American people.

Grape leaves are perfect sources of vitamins, minerals, and other essential nutrients, including vitamin B group, vitamin A, E, C, and K, magnesium, manganese, iron, calcium, copper, and other minerals. This natural product is totally free from any sort of fats and cholesterol, instead it is rich in fiber and very low in calories. Another key nutritional advantage of grape leaves its being very high in omega 3 acid It is almost free from sugar and sodium, that makes grape leaves a great natural food to consume in the framework of any healthy nutrition plan. Numerous health benefits of grape leaves have quite solid scientific backgrounds, and the most of scientific works and researchers were conducted by the scientists of leading universities of the Mediterranean region. Below, there is a list of the most important therapeutic properties of this natural food which can be enjoyed by everyone who consumes organic grape leaves on a regular basis.
  • Grape Leaves 
  • According to the information from Mayo Clinic website, consuming organic grape leaves is linked to reduced risks of some types of cancer, namely colon cancer, breast cancer, and prostate cancer. This is explained by high concentrations of natural omega 3 acids in this food.
  • Grape leaves are primarily known for their strong anti-inflammatory properties. Consuming this natural product a few times a week can assist in relieving the condition of those who suffer from rheumatoid arthritis, as well as lower the risk of many kinds of inflammation.
  • This natural food is known and highly valued for its low glycemic index, that is why it can be recommended to those who suffer from type 2 diabetes and can assist such patients in improving their blood sugar.
  • As a group of researchers by the Department of Dermatology at the University of Freiburg reported in 2010, grape leaves can be consumed in order to reduce the risk of chronic venous insufficiency.
  • Omega 3 acids are known for their support of our cardiovascular health, and a regular consumption of organic grape leaves reduced the risk for heart attack, stroke, cardiac arrhythmia, high blood pressure, and other related conditions.
  • Rich in vitamin E, grape leaves are considered an effective natural remedy to improve skin quality. It can be recommended for those who have rough and oily skin.
  • According to the study published in Archives of Pharmacal Research in 2010, consuming grape leaves improves brain function and lowers the risk for Alzheimer’s and other types of dementia.
  • Herbal preparation with grape leaves can assist women in preventing excessive menstrual bleeding and other related irregularities.
  • Very common uses of grape leaves include treatment of stomach aches, diarrhea, indigestion, liver problems, uterine hemorrhage, headaches, fever, and other health conditions.

3 Ways to See God in Your Suffering


Horatio Spafford didn’t know it, but he was about to face incredible suffering. He planned a family vacation to Europe for the fall of 1873, but a business emergency kept him from traveling with his family. Intending to join his family after he attended to the situation, he sent his wife, Anna, and their four daughters ahead of him. During his family’s voyage their ship collided with another vessel. Although Anna survived, their four daughters drowned.
Inspired by this tragic event, Spafford wrote a poem, the words of which would become the lyrics to It Is Well with My Soul. Knowing the story behind the hymn sheds a whole new light on the line “when sorrows like sea billows roll.”
When you face trials, are you inclined to sing “It is well, it is well with my soul,” or do you find it difficult to sing at all? What does it take to keep such solid faith when life is nothing but shifting sands? How can you grow through suffering, rather then just get through suffering?
The Apostle Paul, in Romans chapter 8, tells us that the way to face suffering is by keeping your eye on glory.
God has a glorious purpose for your suffering
So often when we face incredible difficulties we ask God, “Why?” We wonder if we have just become a pawn in his chess match against the devil. But Paul reminds us that God has a purpose for our sufferings: eternal glory. He tells us we are children of God, “provided we suffer with him in order that we may also be glorified with him” (Rom. 8:17). And lest we wonder if the glory is worth it, Paul adds, “For I consider that the sufferings of this present time are not worth comparing with the glory that is to be revealed to us” (Rom. 8:18).
God has something in store for you that is so great and so amazing that when that day comes, you will say that the hardship was worth it. It may be hard to imagine today, but these verses teach that the burdens and troubles that weigh so heavily upon you now will seem as light as a feather God reveals his eternal glory to you.
God works all things, including your suffering, for good
Not only does God have great things in store for us in the future, but he also works now through our sufferings for our good. “For we know that for those who love God all things work together for good, for those who are called according to his purpose” (Rom. 8:28). We have no reason to fear that our trials will bring us to our demise, since God has a way of working such situations out for good. As Joseph said to his brothers who sold him into slavery, “As for you, you meant evil against me, but God meant it for good” (Gen. 50:20).
What is the good that God intends for us? Although God does not promise that our circumstances will improve, he does promise that our circumstances will improve us, so that we become “conformed to the image of his Son” (Rom. 8:29). Trials are God’s way of making us more Christlike.
It’s common to try to learn something from our trials. While learning is important, God intends so much more than just to teach us a lesson. He wants to make us resemble our Savior in our attitude, desires, actions, thoughts, and words.
God empowers you for victory, even in the midst of suffering
What if your trial is lifelong? What if your temptations will never go away? What if there is no light at the end of the tunnel? Is any thought of victory hopeless?
Paul gives us a resounding no. “No, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him who loved us” (Rom. 8:37). Notice that Paul doesn’t say “out of all these things,” or, “away from all these things,” but, “in all these things.” Right there in the middle of your suffering – no matter how intense it is (see 8:35) – you can be more than a conqueror.
How? Not through your own strength, but “through him who loved us.” God empowers us to stand firm the midst of suffering. Since it can’t crush us, and since it can’t separate us from God’s love (Rom. 8:35, 39), we will be victorious, whether the trial comes to an end or not.
Conclusion
I wish I could tell you that the Spaffords never had another gut-wrenching trial. But tragedy hit the Spafford family another time, too. The Spaffords’ only son, also named Horatio, succumbed to scarlet fever at the tender age of 4.
I can’t guarantee you that once you get through the trial you’re in that your life will be fine and dandy the rest of the way. But I can guarantee you that God can work through it for your good and his glory.
How do I know this? Because he did it through Jesus. Our Savior faced the worst suffering anyone has ever experienced – a torturous death, and the emptiness of his Father turning away. Yet through that suffering God brought salvation to the world. If God can work the cross for good, then he can – and he promises that he will – work the crosses that you bear for good, too.

Always Do Your Best.

“Popularity is people liking you; happiness is you liking you.” In a world in which we are all trying to discover our full potential and create “happy” lives, I find this to be an interesting quote. In a world that is often over-stressed, out-of-balance, and out-of-shape, it is not because there is a lack of want for success that prevents so many people from discovering their full potential or attaining the happiness they so aspire. Most people want success, desire the best for themselves, and want to achieve balance in their lives. It often is they feel trapped in their situation and don’t know how to overcome it.
As a personal trainer, business owner, and coach that has the opportunity to work with world-class executives, athletes, and clients, I often hear the same challenges, obstacles, and issues facing all of us today. The purpose of this article is to share with you the 6 biggest challenges we face today and solutions to overcome them so you can find peace, health, harmony, and happiness in your life. Here we go:
“No Time”– People will often say “I have no time to get anything done. Between work, family obligations, kid duties, soccer games, and everything else I try to balance out, I just have no time to do anything I enjoy”. My comment is it all comes down to TIME MANAGEMENT. Yes, we do often have too many things on our plate and we are trying to juggle too much. Here are some strategies to improve our time management:
  • Learn to say “No” more often. We do have a choice of how much is on our plate. Saying “No” to more things can free up valuable time to do more of what you WANT TO DO and not more of what you do not want to do.
  • You do not need huge chunks of time to get projects done. I often find people procrastinating to take action on projects to find the perfect time to dive in. The “perfect” time will never come and the reality is we rarely have large blocks of time to put into projects unless you prioritize them and build it into your schedule. The most successful people have the discipline to use every 30 or 60 minute time block to be chipping away at “large” projects. Although it would be ideal to devote an entire day or two to some projects, that time block does not often come unless you plan far in advance. Make the best use of your time in small increments.
  • Do not get side-tracked by emails. The average person receives approximately 70 emails per day. It is impossible to keep up with them all. In order to best manage this, have specific times to read emails and specific times to respond to emails. If you just answer emails all day, you will rob yourself of the important tasks that NEED to be done on your list.
  • Prioritize your “To Do List” into an “A” category & a “B” category. The “A” category holds the tasks that NEED to be done. The “B’s” are the items that you would like to see done. You may enjoy the “B’s” more, but do the “A’s” first and have the discipline and focus to complete the A list before proceeding to the B list.
“Not Enough Money”—I hear this quite often and there are many ways to overcome this. First off, stop saying I do not have enough money. By simply saying it, it puts a negative in your head. Although it may be reality that you do not have enough money right now, you must think differently. Remember, your thoughts ultimately are your actions and we need to think of strategies and solutions to generate more financial freedom in your life. John Wooden says that the cornerstone of success is hard-work and persistence. It is best to develop a plan and strategy to create more income. Potential ways to do this include:
  • Create a workshop. Whatever your passionate about, develop an educational or motivational program that can help people within your area of “expertise”.
  • Create a DVD. It does not necessarily have to be an elaborate, expensive DVD that costs you a ton of money. Most people want content with a professional feel. If it is your first product, use the K.I.S.S. method (Keep it Simple Stupid). By having the attitude that “Good is good enough”, that can free us from our perfectionist attitude that many times holds us back from taking action on any project. When you take action that creates Mo-mentum. And Mo-mentum means “Mo’Money”.
  • Create your own Mastermind Group. If you want to be successful, you must surround yourself with great people. Regardless of your occupation, find the top people, mentors, leaders in your field, and surround yourself with them. Whether it be meeting or talking once per month or facilitating an on-going means of communication via email, the power of surrounding yourself with forward-thinking, positive people can help propel you to great levels and accelerate your results.
  • MLM (Multi-Level Marketing). Let’s face it; if you are looking to create passive income, this is one way to do it. I have many friends that are doing extremely well with products that involve MLM. While MLM always makes people feel uneasy, the bottom line is that it is one way for you to create more passive income. The key here is to do your research, believe in a product you represent, and make sure you are a passionate about it. Remember that any product that you endorse also reflects your brand, so choose accordingly.
  • Become an expert in your field. This can only enhance opportunities that can propel you to new levels, new roles and positions in your job, and further opportunities that can not yet be seen.
If you want to be an expert in a field, you can do several things to create this:
  • Listen to audio CD tapes in your car. Since the average American spends 300 hours per year in the car, this is a great use of your “Free” time.
  • Instead of watching TV at night, read a good book.
  • Read at least 1 good book per month.
  • Attend at least 1 conference or seminar per year in your field.
  • Write an article for a major publication or website for your industry to help expose your brand.
  • Surround yourself with great people on on-going basis (ie. A Mastermind)
Notice I said “CREATE” throughout this section. It takes a lot of work and some strategic planning on how you are going to spend your time to develop more income. Set your intentions, commit to your success, and create whatever it is you so desire. And remember, there are no short-cuts and easy ways to success.
“My physical health needs to improve”—We all know that we need to exercise more, eat better, and sleep better. The key is how to do this with the time demands on our schedule. My solutions to this include:
  • Hire a trainer. If you don’t have one, get one. Trainers can help you with motivation, accountability, and game-planning. Even if you use a trainer to jump start your transformation, they can play a major role in helping you achieve the results you desire.
  • Take a class. Mix it up and try yoga, Pilates, Boot Camp, Kickboxing, Nia, or something brand new.
  • Put it in your schedule. Whether you exercise at 5:30 am, Noon, or 6 pm, the important thing is that it goes into your schedule and you work around that time. Honor your body, your mind, and your spirit with at least 20 minutes per day, 5 days per week. This will make a huge difference in your life.
  • Improve your nutrition by deciding on 3 things you will commit to changing. Maybe it’s eating breakfast, not eating fast-food, eliminating soda from your diet, getting on a supplement regime, reducing caloric intake, drinking more water, or improving your fruits/vegetables intake. Whatever you choose, commit to changing 3 things, write it down, and make it happen.
  • Sleep more. While experts recommend 7-8 hours of sleep, I’m going to recommend that you also focus on the quality of your sleep. Going to bed before midnight, improving your environment, not eating late at night (energy goes towards digestion instead of rejuvenation and re-energizing), and listening to some relaxing music before falling asleep can all help the quality of your sleep and make sure you get enough REM sleep.
Your physical conditioning drives a positive mindset and drives success. Your health is an integral component of your success. You must commit to its success!
“My life is out of balance”— While we all crave more harmony in our lives, it is going to take conscious effort to create improved balance. Methods to improve the quality of your life may mean:
  • Simplify.
  • Say “no” to the things you don’t want in your life and “yes” to the things you do want in your life and commit.
Honor your time and energy. They are the most precious commodities you have. Protect your time. Ask yourself this question, “How can I best utilize my time right now and stay present in the moment.
One of my favorite quotes on balance comes from Brian Dyson of Coca Cola Enterprises. He says that “Imagine life as a game in which you are juggling five balls in the air. You name them – work, family, health, friends, and spirit – and you are keeping all of these in the air. You will soon understand that work is a rubber ball. If you drop it, it will bounce back. But the other four balls – family, health, friends, and spirit are made of glass. If you drop one of these, they will be irrevocably scuffed, marked, nicked, damaged, or even shattered. They will never be the same. You must understand that and strive for balance in your life.”
“I am always thinking about what is next”—So many times we forget about what we did yesterday or accomplished just hours ago. We are always just so focused on tomorrow, next month, next year, etc. Take a moment to relax sometimes and not be so anxious. It is really important to stay present in the “now”. This is called living in the “Zen”. I often say you need to live in the moment and not worry about the future. The reason for this is because that 90% of the things you worry about never happen and the other 10% you can not do anything about anyway. Stay focused on the things you can control and not on the things you can’t control. Although extremely challenging to do, do your best to stay present in the moment and it will help reduce stress and worry, and will help you relax and feel more in control of your life. Be “aware” of this and it will help you stay present in the moment.
“I am stuck in a rut”—If you feel like you are stuck in life and can not get out of the hole you are in, there are several ways to get out:
  • Serve others. Fellow fitness professional and author of the Workout of the Month program, Jeanie Callan-Barat, says that if you want more, you must give more. I love that. If you are stuck, serve…serve…and serve.
  • Push people “up”—While closely related to serving, continue to make a difference in other people’s lives. Encourage, motivate, or send someone a hand-written inspirational letter, call a long last-friend and offer some kind words, or continue being an inspiration and set an example at your place of work. The higher we help others go, the higher we go. Start with your own family and than spread your encouragement to all people with which you come in contact. Motivational speaker, author, and pastor Joel Osteen says that “If you want to be happy for 1 day—go fishing; if you want to be happy for 1 month, get married; if you want to be happy for one year, inherit a fortune; if you want to be happy for a lifetime, invest in others.”
These are just some tips and strategies to help you in your quest for peace, health, happiness, and prosperity. As your journey in life is always unfolding, remember that one of the Four Agreements from dom Miguel Ruiz states that you must “Always Do Your Best”. As long as you are aware of strategies for success, willing to create and implement a game plan for personal growth, and you always do your best, I believe it is then that we fulfill our full potential and discover happiness. Best of luck to you in overcoming any of your challenges and discovering happiness in your journey.

3 Ways to Love Your Wife

3 Ways to Love Your Wife
I’m a super busy husband and father of three. Sometimes I feel piled under with all the things on my plate. Praise God he’s given my bride as a helpmate; my wife is a superstar! She helps in so many ways, yet, too often I either take it for granted, or – with the weight of everything else – I overlook shepherding and loving her well. This article is not just an admonition to other husbands; it’s a reminder for me to prevent love amnesia towards my bride.
Husbands, don’t let everything else crowd out love for your wife. Love her well in these three ways.
1. Love Her by Leading Her
When I say lead her, I’m talking about leading like Christ leads the Church.
Christ came into the world, making disciples, teaching them everything he knew, and unleashing them to do his work. He fed them the Word of God and explained it throughout his ministry. In the Gospel of Luke we see this from the onset to the end of his earthly ministry, from the point he returned from the wilderness temptation (Lk. 4:14-15) all the way until just before ascension (Lk. 24:45, 50).
Jesus is the archetypal husband, the one to whom men should look (Rev. 19:7). Just as he led and fed his future Bride, and still is doing so through the Word, a husband, likewise, must lead and feed his bride.
Do you open the Word with yours? Do you pray together? As a family do you come together in devotion and worship? Don’t wait for Sunday? Have a little church in your home. When you study your Bible, think of how you might take those gleanings and gift them to your bride.
Then unleash your wife to do noble work just like Christ unleashed the Church. Unleash her to serve her family just like the wife of noble character in Proverbs 31:10-31.
2. Love Her by Serving Her Sacrificially
“Even as the Son of Man came not to be served but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many,” is the argument Jesus gave to back his admonition that true greatness is found in service (Matt. 20:25-28). Do you want to be a great husband? Great husbands serve like Jesus, and they love sacrificially like Jesus. “Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her” (Eph. 5:25). Who’s your best friend? I hope it’s your wife. Jesus says: “Greater love has no one than this, that someone lay down his life for his friends” (John 15:13).
Every day, through service and sacrifice, you should die a little bit for your wife. You should put to death your ambitions, your plans, and your purposes in order to look out for her holiness. That was the aim of Ephesians 5:25.
Look at the next verse: “That he might sanctify her” (Eph. 5:26a). Interestingly, serving your wife sacrificially not just sanctifies you. It sanctifies her! This action creates a sacred bond between you and your bride. It’s not because of what you’re doing for her but because of the union that your doing symbolizes about your relationship. It’s a bond bound by sacrificial love.
Look for simple ways to serve and be sacrificial. Get off work early and pick up the kids for her. Do the dishes and clean up after dinner. Take the laundry basket out of her hand. You might want to ask her what are the things that would serve her most. Find out and then do those things joyfully.
3. Love Her by Affirming Her
A loving husband dotes on his bride, and God dotes on his. We see this in Isaiah 62:5, “For as a young man marries a young woman, so shall your sons marry you, and as the bridegroom rejoices over the bride, so shall your God rejoice over you.”
Praise your wife and affirm her often. Proverbs 31:28 says this is what a husband does: “Her children rise up and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praises her.” Children learn to praise their mother by watching their father praise his wife. Your affirmation teaches a legacy of love and affirmation.
Add to that affirmation healthy doses of affection. This includes thoughtful tokens and gifts along with physical affection. Bring her favorite beverage home when you return from work, bring flowers, leave a note of appreciation, and fill her cup with loving physical affection.
Unquenchable and Unfathomably Deep Love
I pray this Scripture often for my wife: “Many waters cannot quench love neither can floods drown it” (Songs 8:7a). That’s the kind of love I wish to share with her: unquenchable and unfathomably deep love. You know what quenches love? A relationship devoid of leading, serving, and affirming turns the deep pool of love into a dry cistern. Make it your resolution to avert this tragedy by loving your wife well.
 

The Hardest Sermon You'll Ever Preach (or hear)



 
 By Rich Ryan

Nothing can fully prepare you for it. As I reflect over the most challenging sermons I have preached, no difficult text or exegetical conundrum has ever been as difficult as preaching a memorial service for a close family member. Put any family member in that slot, mother, father, brother, sister, wife, or child.
In October of 2006 I got the call that my closest (in age) brother was admitted to the hospital with a brain tumor. After a successful surgery to remove it, we were sucker punched again to find out that this was simply a deposit of a much larger cancer that was in his liver, pancreas and bones. The diagnosis was, “Stage-4, terminal.”
At that moment our family was thrown onto the stage of suffering. To be sure, his immediate family has known exceedingly more pain than any of us have, but as a family, we’ve known joy and grief in ways that are honestly inexpressible. On one hand you are able to rejoice that your brother, who loves the Lord, is going home. It presses you to live and affirm your alien residency. At the same time, like Jesus with Lazarus, you are gripped with the overwhelming grief that sin permeates this world and its effects are real and relentless.
As the weeks unfolded after Tim’s diagnosis I had many excellent talks with my brother. We talked practically about God’s sovereignty in ways I never have before. Honestly friends, “Trust God” can ring hollow in the ears of a person whose entire life has just ground to a halt. All their dreams and aspirations for life with their family have just been cut tragically short. I did a lot of listening, weeping and mourning with him.
One night as I was driving home from his house (about 90 miles away) my wife asked me the question I hoped no one would ask, “Do you think they will ask you to do the funeral?” You see, up to this point in ministry, I had officiated at three funerals. Honestly, they are very difficult for me. I am VERY emotional and I’ve struggled to get through the service when the person was a close friend. How could I possibly do my brother’s funeral? Our answer was a steadfast, “No!”
But in time, God worked in my heart to show me what I would be missing. Hundreds and hundreds of people would be there – my brother was a popular guy. Most of my extended family would be there. Many of his friends and business associates would be there, mourning the tragic events that shortened this father of four’s life to a mere 47 years. Questions would abound – Why him? Why so young? Maybe even, “Why would God allow this?”
After preaching through John I came to realize that God often uses the stages of suffering to make himself known to the unbelieving world. Jesus said it would happen and even prayed that God would do that in John 16 and 17. So as I prayerfully considered my significant failings at emotional services, I realized that this was too great an opportunity to pass up.
Who cares if I blubber my way through parts of it? Who cares if it’s the worst delivery I’ve ever given? What mattered most is that many in this crowd were hopelessly lost in their sin. I had the only answer to cure their hopelessness and I had a captive audience, gripped by the nearness of eternity. I had the glorious gospel of Jesus Christ. How could I not tell them the good news? So, by God’s good grace, I took up the mantle and prepared my sermon for my brother’s memorial service.
What makes it the hardest sermon you’ll ever preach is the emotional tug of war that will go on within you. On one hand you’ll know that your brother is in glory, no pain, no cancer, no tears and sleepless nights of agony. You’ll smile and shout, “Hallelujah!” Yet on the other hand you’ll look at the faces of his wife and kids, your mom and dad, your brothers and sisters, nieces and nephews and know that no Thanksgiving will ever be the same, no Christmas will ever be the same. There will always be one empty chair and you’ll miss his renditions of the favorite family stories. You’ll miss his laugh and smile so much. You know you’ll see him again soon, but for the moment, the vapor that is this life will seem like an eternity. In the midst of all of that, you’ll have to preach words of hope and comfort to lost and dying souls. This is the paradox of unspeakable joy mixed with profound grief. Possibly, this is a mere hint of what the Apostle means when he reminds the church with a gentle caution, “to not grieve as do the rest who have no hope” (1 Thessalonians 1:13).

“He’s in a Better Place” and Other Things Christians Shouldn’t Say

Immediately after he passed away, a nurse came in and made an empty attempt at comfort, “He’s in a better place” she said. As soon as the words were uttered they seemed to bounce around the room with nowhere to comfortably land. For the sake of context, this was spoken to a dear woman, only nanoseconds removed from the loss of her husband and best friend of forty-eight years. Better place? Really? Is it wise to tell a woman who has just lost the closest of human relationships that your husband is better off because he’s no longer here with you? Regardless of intentions and whatever this might mean, I’m convinced that Christians can do better.
Now this is not to open a discussion on the nature of heaven. I believe that “heaven is for real,” not because some four year old has an out of body experience and lives to tell about it. Heaven, like hell, is real because the Bible assumes the veracity of both. Christians are often easily duped into throwing out the Bible and taking up second-hand experiences as proof of this and that. We should remember that the Bible is sufficient reason enough to believe that after our earthly existence, our souls will be immediately present with Christ and will await a future resurrection of our bodies in which the ultimate destination (i.e., place) becomes a new heaven a new earth. This I know because the Bible tells me so.
Could this be what that poor nurse was getting at? Was she attempting to emphasize that, “he’s in a better place”?  If so, it would seem that the weight of scripture would be on her side. The great Apostle surely indicates as much, stating that to be absent from the body is “to be at home with the Lord” (emphasis mine, 2 Cor 5:8). Also, we believe in the immortality of the soul so if it’s not here then it has to be somewhere. So if this were her intention she would be theologically correct on a number of points. However, I don’t think this is what she was aiming for.
The problem of the nurse’s hollow comfort is one that is painfully acute with Christians. We want to say something, anything that might bring comfort so we grab for aphorisms that have been handed down to us by our own experiences or from the self-help section at the Christian bookstore. In so doing, we grab the mantle laid down by the likes of Job’s friends. He too had questions about “place” and the afterlife. Poor Job wondered, “Man expires, and where is he?” (Job 14:10). His friend, Eliphaz, chimes in and says that such questions are “useless talk” and then proceeds to wax on about his life experiences.
You see the problem is not with the technicality of the answer from the nurse. On the theological merits, she was correct—he was in a better place. The problem is that the suffering widow was not asking a question. She was grieving, sobbing, and her mind was undoubtedly racing in many directions. The nurse was answering a question, that at least in that instant, no one was asking. In such moments it is imperative that Christians learn the discipline and wisdom of holding our tongues. This is not to say that we take up vows of silence when thrust into these situations but less is more.
The Proverbs speak of the delight of a “timely word” (15:23). If we were to unpack the fullness of what this means then we would see that it is a word that is measured with wisdom, truth, and patient compassion. A timely word can be a word delayed either in a letter, email, or note of sympathy. A timely word may be a conversation over coffee months later when important questions do arise. A timely word may be no word at all, at least in that moment.
I was recently reminded of this from the likes of an atheist no less. In a sad Vanity Fair essay Christopher Hitchens, who is suffering from esophageal cancer, says something that I was unable to forget:
So far, I have decided to take whatever my disease can throw at me, and to stay combative even while taking the measure of my inevitable decline. I repeat, this is no more than what a healthy person has to do in slower motion. It is our common fate. In either case, though, one can dispense with facile maxims that don’t live up to their apparent billing.
In the essay, Hitchens was bemoaning the dictum that “whatever doesn’t kill us makes us stronger.” This line, probably adapted from Nitzsche who borrowed it from Goethe, rings hollow for Hitchens. It’s nothing more than a “facile maxim.” This led me to wonder, do we Christians have our own mottos that have a ring of truth in the moment yet fail to deliver (“live up to their apparent billing”)? You bet we do, so let us agree to part ways with them and redeem our conversations. This will mean that when we do speak, it will be the truth in love with the goal of helping one another mature in Christ (Eph 4:15).

Expository Thoughts and Consideration

Have you ever listened to someone pray and wondered why you don’t (or can’t) pray as they do? From the first, we must remember that prayer is not rendered ineffective because of its lack of eloquence or theological vocabulary. At the same time, this is an area in which believers will consistently grow, not so they can flatter a crowd, but so that they might pray in concert with God’s will. Although it is probably not a good practice to compare the prayers of other men and women, it seems that a prayer—especially when prayed corporately—can vary in its effectiveness in both asking according to the will of God and reflecting with the body of Christ.
My supposition is simple: Praying Scripture promotes growth and effectiveness in prayer. Granted, Scripture must meet a heart compelled to believe in a God who is sovereign and therefore able to answer prayer. That is, a praying heart must trust in the God who desires to answer the prayers of His children. Such was Jesus’ expectation for His disciples (John 15:7). Yet, Scripture provides inspired vocabulary and theology for prayer that pleases the Lord.
Fortunately, Scripture has provided examples of what this looks like. Not only are we given prayers of God’s children through the text, but we also have an example of the manner and result of a servant of God who prays as a reflection of his meditation upon the word of God. We see this in the text of Daniel 9.
Daniel 9:2 makes an interesting shift in the book. Daniel had previously received revelation through visions and dreams. Here, the text shifts to the interpretation of Scripture. Instead of receiving a new divine vision, Daniel reads, tries to understand Jeremiah 25:1, and prays as a response to this text. The particular verse that mentions the 70 years is Jeremiah 25:11 (see also Jeremiah 29:10), but it is pretty clear based on his prayer that he was reading the whole chapter.
As a result of his understanding the text of Jeremiah, Daniel responded in the following manner: “So I gave my attention to the Lord God to seek Him by prayer and supplications, with fasting, sackcloth and ashes” (Daniel 9:3). Daniel literally “turned his face toward the Lord God,” which is a fitting description of prayer. In prayer, believers turn their face from the world, its allurements, and their preoccupation with themselves to the Lord their God. The focus of their mind turns to God Himself and His will for their lives. Daniel’s manner in prayer revealed a determined, fervent heart; not an in-passing, flippant approach to prayer. He was desperate, and he lingered long before the Lord in order to understand God’s will. This was not simply a quick request before reading Scripture to ask for God’s blessing; this was a prolonged time of fasting and sitting before the Lord in a humble state. We learn much from Daniel’s countenance, but we also learn from the way he approached both the text and his response to it. Though the passages resonates with the rest of the Old Testament, two examples suffice to make our point.
1.      Daniel and Moses
Moreover, as an example for us, Daniel’s prayer demonstrates how he prayed in accordance with the text. For example, he begins his prayer, “Alas, O Lord, the great and awesome God, who keeps His covenant and lovingkindness for those who love Him and keep His commandments” (Daniel 9:4). Consider the words of Deuteronomy 7:9:
Know therefore that the Lord your God, He is God, the faithful God, who keeps His covenant and His lovingkindness to a thousandth generation with those who love Him and keep His commandments.
Now, even if Daniel was not quoting from this text—which I believe he is doing—he is at least echoing the words of God given in the text. As such, there is a resonance between his words and those of the Pentateuch. As such, the implication is important. According to Moses in Deuteronomy 7:9, when God brought His people out of Egypt with a mighty hand and redeemed them from slavery, this should have served as a perpetual example of how God would be faithful to the covenant that He had made with His people. This covenant was the promise that God had made to Abraham that these people would be God’s chosen people. Godhad promised to bless them, to multiply their seed, and to give them the land of Canaan. Thus, Moses and Daniel recognized that God is one who keeps His covenant, that He would keep His lovingkindness (or loyal love). In fact, later in the prayer, Daniel reflects upon the Lord’s work in bringing His people “out of the land of Egypt with a mighty hand” (Daniel 9:15).
2.      Daniel and Solomon
Daniel’s prayer continues: “We have sinned, committed iniquity, acted wickedly and rebelled, even turning aside from Your commandments and ordinances” (Daniel 9:5). In setting these three phrases together, Daniel’s prayer seems to be bringing together the truths of Solomon’s prayer in 1 Kings 1:1. When Solomon had finished building the temple and when the ark had been brought in, he prayed a prayer of dedication. Near the end, he acknowledged the sinful tendencies that they as a nation had, and so he made the following request of the Lord in 1 Kings 8:46:
When they sin against You (for there is no man who does not sin) and You are angry with them and deliver them to an enemy, so that they take them away captive to the land of the enemy, far off or near.
This was the exact case, the reason Daniel was in exile to begin with. God had given them over to their enemies because of their continued sin. Solomon continued:
If they take thought in the land where they have been taken captive, and repent and make supplication to You in the land of those who have taken them captive, saying, “We have sinned and have committed iniquity, we have acted wickedly.” (1Kgs 8:47)
These are the same words that Daniel uses to make confession. If God’s people were to find themselves in exile, the proper response was to confess that they had sinned, committed iniquity, and acted wickedly, just as Daniel confessed. He seems to have “taken thought” just as Solomon had prayed later readers would.
What is more, the balance of Daniel’s prayer seems to reflect the rest of Solomon’s as well:
If they return to You with all their heart and with all their soul … and pray to You … then hear their prayer and their supplication [plea for mercy] in heaven Your dwelling place, and maintain their cause, and forgive Your people … and make them objects of compassion before those who have taken them captive, that they may have compassion on them. (1Kgs 8:47–50)
What Solomon had foreseen and prayed about, Daniel was living. He and his people found themselves in exile because of the sins of their fathers. Now the question remained: Would they respond correctly by not following the pattern of their fathers’ reaction? In this prayer, Daniel demonstrates that he was responding correctly, in line with Solomon’s prayer hundreds of years before.
Conclusion
I am pretty certain that good praying is not marked by its use of King James English. I think what sticks out in my mind about such individuals is that their prayers are well versed in Scripture. I think this is the reason that their prayers seem to be an expression of the heart of God. They know Him well, because they have spent time in His Word. This reflects itself in their praying as they view life through His lens, not their own.
For those of us who struggle with this, praying in light of Scripture, I believe, is an important principle for modern believers. If God speaks to us in His word—and He does—and if we desire to pray according to His will—as we should—then we will consistently pray in light of the text. When we read Scripture, in other words, we learn what God’s heart truly loves and what He desires. Therefore, when we pray with the words of Scripture, we are assured that our requests are not self-centered or outside of His will. Our requests will be focused upon Him and His glory and in line with His larger plans. When we read the Bible for our devotions or when reflecting upon Sunday’s sermon, it would be helpful for us to rephrase what we have learned in a prayer. This will help us develop not only a better vocabulary for prayer but also train our hearts to respond to God in a way that pleases Him. In many ways, this is why the book of Psalms has been so well loved by believers. In it we find the writer dealing with the highs and lows of life, and we learn how he responds to those situations with his words. The same is true of Daniel in this passage. His mind was filled with the Word of God. Much of the language he uses in his prayer is not new to him; it is taken from what he was reading in Jeremiah. This prayer may leave you saying, “If I could only pray like Daniel!” Well, the good news is that you can, because he was simply a faithful student of God’s words, and he recognized their continued validity in his life.
So, through these couple example from Daniel’s prayer, the pattern emerges whereby God’s servant reads the text, works diligently to understand that text within the context of Scripture, and responds to the text with requests influenced and governed by God’s words. Following Daniel’s example can ensure that our prayers clearly articulate the will of God, with the full understanding that in our weakness “the Spirit Himself intercedes for us with groaning too deep for words” (Romans 8:26).

The Deadly Power of Sin (Ephesians 2:1-3)

The late Anglican bishop, H. C. G. Moule, wrote (Ephesian Studies [Christian Literature Crusade], p. 70), “Never was there a heresy, but it had something to do with an insufficient estimate of sin.” He was right, because an insufficient estimate of sin means that we do not need the radical solution of the cross. And Satan does all that he can to undermine the necessity of the cross. He works overtime to get us to ignore what the Puritans called, “the exceeding sinfulness of sin.”
Sadly, many modern churches that claim to be evangelical minimize sin. Some of them simply avoid the word, preferring to focus on more positive aspects of what they call “the gospel.” But there is no need for the gospel if people are not desperately, hopelessly alienated from God because of sin. Some of these churches swap the label on sin, referring to it with all sorts of psychobabble. But the Father did not send Jesus Christ into this world to help us cope with our problems. He did not put His Son on the cross to make us feel better about ourselves or to boost our self-esteem. Christ came and offered Himself on the cross to deal with our most fundamental, pervasive, and eternally devastating problem, that our sins have made us objects of the wrath of the holy God.
Some say that they don’t want to focus on the negatives, such as sin, but rather on the positives, such as God’s love and grace. But if we don’t understand the depths of sin from which God rescued us, we will not appreciate the riches of His grace and the magnitude of His love. As J. C. Ryle wrote (Expository Thoughts on the Gospels [Baker], on Luke 20:9-19, p. 326), “Christ is never fully valued until sin is clearly seen.”
And if we underestimate the deadly power of sin, we will surely fall prey to it. One of the greatest mistakes a general can make before going into battle is to underestimate the power of the enemy. If he thinks that the enemy is weak when they really are strong, his troops will not be prepared and will be routed. And so we must have an accurate, biblical view of our own sinfulness if we would have victory over sin.
In chapter 1, the apostle Paul begins with an extended exclamation of praise to God who has blessed us with every spiritual blessing in the heavenly places in Christ (1:3). He unfolds those blessings by showing that the Father chose us in Christ before the foundation of the world (1:4-6). The Son redeemed us through His blood and made known to us the mystery of His will for the ages, the summing up of all things in Christ (1:7-12). And God sealed us with the Holy Spirit of promise (1:13-14). God graciously lavished these blessings upon us, all to the praise of the glory of His grace (1:6, 12, 14).
Then (1:15-23) Paul shares his constant prayer for the Ephesians, that God might grant them a spirit of wisdom and revelation in the knowledge of Him. Especially, he prays that they might understand (1:18-19) “what is the hope of His calling, what are the riches of the glory of His inheritance in the saints, and what is the surpassing greatness of His power toward us who believe.” This mighty power of God is the same power that raised Jesus from the dead and seated Him at His right hand in the heavenly places, far above all authority and power. And He gave Christ as head over all things to the church, which is His body.
But Paul knew that we will never praise and glorify God as we should if we lose sight of the depths of sin from which He saved us. We will not be filled with gratitude for our salvation if we forget where we were and still would be if God had not reached down to us with His abundant grace. So in chapter 2 Paul shows what God has done for us individually (2:1-10) and corporately (2:11-22) in saving us from our sins. He follows the same pattern in both sections: our past (2:1-3, 11-12); our present (2:4-9, 13-18); and, our future (2:10, 19-22). In 2:1-3, Paul wants us to remember our past before the Lord rescued us from judgment, so that we will appreciate the riches of His grace. He shows that…
All who are outside of Christ are spiritually dead, living under the power of the world, the devil, and the flesh, by nature under God’s wrath against sin.
Before we examine these verses, I want to say a word to those of you who like me grew up in the church. You may not have an outwardly sordid past. Perhaps like me, you’ve never been drunk. You’ve never used illegal drugs. You’ve not had multiple sex partners. You’ve lived an outwardly moral life. You may not have come to Christ because you saw that you were a wretch who needed saving, as John Newton put it (“Amazing Grace”).
In my spiritual experience, the dawning awareness of the wretched sinfulness of my heart did not come before salvation, but rather afterwards. As the light of God’s Word has shone more fully into the depths of my heart, I have grown to understand that it was only my outward circumstances of growing up in a Christian home that kept me from all manner of evil. If I had grown up in a pagan home with no moral training, I would have committed horrible sins, because my heart by nature is corrupt.
In our text, Paul begins by describing the past sinfulness of the Gentile believers (“you,” 2:1). But lest the Jewish believers smugly think, “I’m glad that I’m a religious Jew who has never done those terrible sins,” Paul includes himself and all Jews (“we too,” 2:3). His argument is much the same as in Romans 1-3, where he first indicts the Gentiles, but then shows that the religious Jews are equally guilty before God, concluding (Rom. 3:23), “for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God.” So even if you have a relatively clean past, God wants you to see yourself in the mirror of Ephesians 2:1-3, so that you will be on guard against the deadly power of indwelling sin and so that you will thank God every day for saving you from the eternal consequences of sin.

1. All who are outside of Christ are spiritually dead, walking in their trespasses and sins.

For some reason, the translators of the King James Version added the words (in 2:1), “He made alive.” Paul will state that wonderful truth in 2:5, but his point in these opening verses is to emphasize our woeful spiritual condition before God made us alive. He wants us to feel the desperate situation that we were in (2:1-2a): “And you were dead in your trespasses and sins, in which you formerly walked….”
The truth that we are spiritually dead before God saved us is a watershed in one’s theology of salvation. Those who deny God’s sovereignty in our salvation have to redefine what it means to be spiritually dead. Above all else, they want to avoid the conclusion that it implies inability, because if sinners are spiritually unable to believe the gospel, then salvation must be totally of God and not at all due to man’s free choice to believe. So they argue that spiritual death only means being separated from God. It does not imply the inability to respond in faith and repentance to the gospel (Norman Geisler, Chosen But Free [Bethany House], second edition, p. 57-67, argues for this; for an excellent refutation of Geisler, see James R. White, The Potter’s Freedom [Calvary Press], especially pp. 91-120).
It is true that spiritual death includes being separated or alienated from God. But the very picture of being dead and the need for God to impart new life strongly implies a lack of ability on the part of the dead sinner to do anything to effect his own resurrection. When Jesus cried out (John 11:43), “Lazarus, come forth,” Lazarus didn’t exercise his free will to come back from the dead! He arose because Jesus imparted life to him. That miracle was a picture of what Jesus had said earlier of spiritual life (John 5:21), “For just as the Father raises the dead and gives them life, even so the Son also gives life to whom He wishes.” The only “free will” that Jesus mentions there is His own will to give life to whom He wishes.
Jesus also stated the inability of sinners to come to Him. In John 6:44, Jesus said, “No one can come to Me unless the Father who sent Me draws him; and I will raise him up on the last day.” In case we missed it, Jesus repeats (John 6:65), “For this reason I have said to you, that no one can come to Me unless it has been granted him from the Father.” The words, “no one can,” in those two verses means that they are unable to come apart from God’s powerful intervention. They are spiritually dead until God imparts new life.
In John 8:43, while contending with the obstinate Jews, Jesus said, “Why do you not understand what I am saying? It is because you cannot hear My word.” Obviously, they could hear Jesus’ voice. They weren’t physically deaf. But their spiritual deafness meant that they were incapable of hearing Jesus’ words in the sense of responding favorably to them.
Of course the apostle Paul lined up with the Lord Jesus on this same point. After stating that the word of the cross is foolishness to those who are perishing (1 Cor. 1:18), he went on to explain (1 Cor. 2:14), “But a natural man does not accept the things of the Spirit of God, for they are foolishness to him; and he cannot understand them, because they are spiritually appraised.” He did not say that the natural man chooses not to understand spiritual truth, but rather that he cannot do so. He lacks the capacity because his foolish heart is darkened by sin (Rom. 1:21; Eph. 4:18).
Using the analogy of blindness rather than death, Paul states of those who are perishing (2 Cor. 4:4), “in whose case the god of this world has blinded the minds of the unbelieving so that they might not see the light of the gospel of the glory of Christ, who is the image of God.” Blind people do not have free will to see. Rather, they are incapable of seeing.
So spiritual death includes being separated from the holy God because of our sin, but it also includes being spiritually incapable of responding favorably to the truth of the gospel unless God raises us from spiritual death to spiritual life.
Paul adds that the sphere in which these Gentile believers were dead was “your trespasses and sins, in which you formerly walked.” Trespasses and sins are essentially synonymous when used as plurals (F. F. Bruce, The Epistles to the Colossians, to Philemon, and to the Ephesians [Eerdmans], p. 280). Paul seems to use both words and to add that we walked in them to emphasize that our entire way of life before God saved us was one of repeated, perpetual disobedience to God.
This is further underscored by the description of unbelievers as “sons of disobedience” (2:2). “Sons of” is a Hebrew expression that means, “characterized by.” To pick one word to describe those who are spiritually dead, they are disobedient toward God. They may be moral, law-abiding, decent people, humanly speaking. But in their hearts, they are not in submission to God. As Paul sums up the depravity of the human race (Rom. 3:18), “There is no fear of God before their eyes.”
Note also that Paul says that the Ephesians formerly walked in their trespasses and sins. While believers do sin, it cannot be said of them that they walk in sin and are characterized by a life of sin. As 1 John 3:9 states, “No one who is born of God practices sin, because His seed abides in him; and he cannot sin, because he is born of God.” If you profess to be born again but continue to live in sin, you need to examine whether you are truly born of God. Walking in sin characterizes the person who is spiritually dead.

2. All who are outside of Christ live under the power of the world, the devil, and the flesh.

A. All who are outside of Christ live under the power of the world.

Paul says that these Gentiles “formerly walked according to the course [lit., “age”] of this world.” This is a unique phrase that seems to call attention to the transitory nature of this present evil world, in contrast to the eternal, heavenly future of the believer. “The world” is the organized system under the control of Satan that is opposed to God. The main operating principle of the world system is self-seeking and independence from God. If we can use God to achieve our selfish goals, so be it. But man is on the throne.
The apostle John strongly warns (1 John 2:15-17), “Do not love the world nor the things in the world. If anyone loves the world, the love of the Father is not in him. For all that is in the world, the lust of the flesh and the lust of the eyes and the boastful pride of life, is not from the Father, but is from the world. The world is passing away, and also its lusts; but the one who does the will of God abides forever.”
Sometimes in the attempt to escape from the corrupting influence of the world, believers have withdrawn into monasteries or cloistered communities. But Jesus prayed for His disciples (John 17:15-18), “I do not ask You to take them out of the world, but to keep them from the evil one. They are not of the world, even as I am not of the world. Sanctify them in the truth; Your word is truth. As You sent Me into the world, I also have sent them into the world.” So the Lord wants us to live in the world, but to be distinct from it because we live in light of His Word of truth.
Those outside of Christ live for this present evil world, because it is all they have. They may believe in heaven, but not enough to live in light of it. They may believe in hell, but they figure that only the worst of the worst will go there. But their focus is on how to get ahead in this world. They have no thought of laying up treasures in heaven nor of seeking first God’s kingdom.

B. All who are outside of Christ live under the power of the devil.

Paul says that they formerly lived “according to the prince of the power of the air, of the spirit that is now working in the sons of disobedience.” He is referring to Satan, who is over all of the fallen angels (demons) who followed him in his rebellion against God. Paul refers to him as the prince of the power of the air to show that these spiritual powers are both invisible and powerful. He later calls them (6:12) “the world forces of this darkness …, the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places.” It’s one thing to fight an enemy that you can see. But it’s a whole different battle to fight a powerful, unseen enemy!
“Sophisticated” modern man scoffs at the notion that such unseen spiritual powers exist. Yet everyone accepts the existence of unseen radio waves, microwaves, and X-rays that travel through the air. We cannot see them, but we can see their effects. It is the same with demonic power. We cannot usually see demons, but we can see the results of their evil power.
Paul is not saying that all unbelievers are demon-possessed. But he is saying that Satan and his evil forces actively work in this world through unbelievers. In most cases they are oblivious to it. They go about their lives without much thought about it, except perhaps at Halloween. But worldly people are actually in Satan’s domain of darkness (Col. 1:13). By living independently of God, with no fear of God in their hearts, they are inadvertently furthering Satan’s evil plans to usurp God’s sovereignty.

C. All who are outside of Christ live under the power of the flesh.

Lest religious people exclude themselves from this indictment of the sinfulness of the human race, Paul adds (2:3), “Among them we too all formerly lived in the lusts of our flesh, indulging the desires of the flesh and of the mind, …” We too refers to religious Jews, including Paul. “The flesh” refers to “human nature as conditioned by the fall” (Moule, p. 72). In Galatians 5, Paul sets the desires and deeds of the flesh against power and fruit of the indwelling Holy Spirit (Gal. 5:16-23). This shows that although believers have been delivered from the dominating power of the flesh, we still must do battle against it by walking in the power of the Holy Spirit.
But unbelievers are totally dominated by the desires of the flesh. In Romans 8:6-8, Paul states, “For the mind set on the flesh is death, but the mind set on the Spirit is life and peace, because the mind set on the flesh is hostile toward God; for it does not subject itself to the law of God, for it is not even able to do so, and those who are in the flesh cannot please God.” Note, again, the emphasis on inability. Unbelievers, who do not have the indwelling Holy Spirit, have only one option: they live to gratify the flesh.
This includes, of course, sensual desires and living according to what feels good at the moment. But it also includes what Paul here calls the desires of the mind. This includes such sins as pride and selfish ambition. His point is that before God saved us, even those of us who were religious lived to gratify selfish desires, whether physical or intellectual.
Thus, all who are outside of Christ are spiritually dead, walking in trespasses and sins. They also live under the power of the world, the flesh, and the devil. Finally,

3. All who are outside of Christ are by nature under God’s wrath against sin.

Paul goes even deeper in analyzing the condition of man apart from God. The problem is not just behavior or even thoughts, but our basic nature. Of the religious Jews, Paul states that they were “by nature children of wrath, even as the rest.” When Adam sinned, the entire human race was plunged into sin (Rom. 5:12-21). This means that we are not sinners because we sin; rather, we sin because we are by nature sinners. We are born alienated from God, in rebellion against Him.
This is why unbelievers cannot exercise their “free will” to believe the gospel: they do not have a nature that is inclined toward God. They may dress up their old nature with good works, but it’s like dressing a pig in a tuxedo. He may look nice for a short while, but his nature will drive him back to wallowing in the mud. To change the pig, you’ve got to change his basic nature!
Paul says that those apart from Christ are “by nature children of wrath.” This Hebrew expression means that they are characterized by being under God’s holy wrath against sin. While modern man scoffs at the notion of God’s wrath, it is a concept that occurs hundreds of times in both the Old and New Testaments, especially in the final book of the Bible, Revelation. It refers to God’s holy, settled hatred against all sin that will result in His final, eternal judgment against all sinners, casting them into the lake of fire (Rev. 20:11-15). John 3:36 states, “He who believes in the Son has eternal life; but he who does not obey the Son will not see life, but the wrath of God abides on him.”

Conclusion

I realize that this is a rather negative, depressing message, but I believe that Paul wants us to gather around the edge of the cesspool of what we once were so that we won’t forget it. He wants us to remember our former condition so that we will appreciate what he goes on to proclaim (Eph. 2:4-5), “But God, being rich in mercy, because of His great love with which He loved us, even when we were dead in our transgressions, made us alive together with Christ (by grace you have been saved)…”
I leave you with this question: Is there a “but God” in your life? As you look at this gruesome portrait of the deadly power of sin, can you say, “Yes, that describes what I once was! But God by His grace broke into my life and made me alive together with Christ!” If so, let it flood you with thankfulness for His abundant grace!

Application Questions

  1. Why is it important to affirm that unbelievers are totally unable to believe in Christ unless God imparts new life to them?
  2. What is the essence of “worldliness”? How do these three enemies, the world, the devil, and the flesh, assert themselves in the lives of believers?
  3. Some argue that believers no longer possess “an old nature,” and thus should not view themselves as sinners. Do you agree?
  4. Why must we hold firmly to the concept of God’s wrath? What do we lose if we minimize or deny it?

10 Biblical Truths to Overcome Sinful Anger

It doesn’t take long to figure out that we live in an angry world. Read the headlines on any given day and you see anger on display in politics, movies, TV shows, and sports. Spend any amount of time in any family and you’ll see anger expressed almost daily. When a day goes by without conflict, it’s a miracle of God.
Sadly, the church hasn’t exactly been the poster child for pursuing peace and reconciling conflict in a God-glorifying way over the course of church history. Even though Jesus “broke down the dividing wall of hostility… so that we could have peace” (Ephesians 2:14–16), we still quarrel and fight
It’s inevitable—wherever there are relationships, sinful anger will be expressed. By nature, we’re all selfish. I’m no exception. Cut me off in traffic, I might have some words for you (with my window up, of course). Do something I perceive as disrespectful, watch out! I may get a little passive aggressive and withdraw from interacting with you because I have a heart of fear. If you “reject me,” I get insecure, defensive, and may punish you by holding back.
See, that’s how deceptive sin can be. It affects our ability to think reasonably and rationally. While I am not immune, I am also certain I’m not alone in my struggle (1 Corinthians 10:13). BUT GOD, in his grace, mercy, kindness, patience, and love has made us alive through the death, burial, and resurrection of his Son, Jesus Christ (Ephesians 2:4–9). It’s only because of Him that I’m pursuing humility and meekness as a way of life. Know this though, humility and meekness are not weakness! They are strength under control, like a well trained war horse (Matthew 5:5).
As God’s children, we can all make this journey of change together. Here are some things I have learned over the years in my fight against sinful anger. Understanding and applying these truths to your own life will help you overcome sinful anger and see sustained fruit.
1. Anger Has Three Faces: It is expressed primarily in three different ways: 1) explosive and blowing up; 2) stewing, brewing, or silent indignation; and 3) irritability, exasperation or embitterment. Silent anger is just as offensive to God as explosive anger. How are you prone to express your anger?
2. Anger Hurts Relationships: You choose who is on the receiving end of your anger because anger is a perceived threat to something you hold valuable. The problem is we can go a whole day at work being “nice” to our co-workers only to lose it at home with those closest to us! We tend to take it out on those we are called to love the most. Who has been on the receiving end of your anger the most?
3. Anger is in the Bible: The Bible has a lot to say about anger. From the beginning in the garden all the way to the end; man’s anger is expressed by rejecting God and pursuing his own way (Romans 3:10–18). Yet man’s anger does not accomplish God’s righteous purposes (James 1:19–20). While God too can be angry, it is never sinful (Psalm 7:11; John 3:36; Romans 1:18). Actually, compared to the offenses He must suffer, He is very “slow to anger” (Exodus 34:6; Psalm 103:8). Does your anger accomplish God’s purposes?
4. Anger Put Jesus on the Cross: Did you know that the anger of man and God’s wrath for all our sins culminated onto Jesus when he went to the cross to pay the penalty for sin (Acts 2:22–24)? He satisfied God’s wrath and allowed man to express their anger towards him at the same time—man rejecting God and God loving man in the very same event in history. How often do you reject God in your anger by not doing what He calls you to do?
5. Anger Is Covered by Christ’s Blood: The blood of Christ is sufficient to cover your sinful anger. No matter what wrath has protruded from your mouth or what you’ve done physically to harm others or yourself, you can be forgiven and walk in newness of life. Anger is a sin, but the death of Christ is payment enough to cover it. If you have died with Christ, you can become a different person (Romans 6:5–11). Do you believe and live as if your anger is covered by the blood of Christ or do you act like His blood isn’t sufficient? Why or why not?
6. Anger is a Life-dominating Sin: Just like any other “addiction,” we become enslaved to anger. It temporarily satisfies our sinful desire and flesh, yet we feel guilty and ashamed when we give full vent to it. It’s a vicious cycle of self-destruction. Are you stuck in a vicious cycle of anger? If so, you can be set free (1 Corinthians 6:9–11).
7. Anger is an Expression of False Worship: Like all other “addictions,” anger has false worship at its core. When you express your anger sinfully, ask yourself, “What am I not getting that I really want or that I’m willing to sin to get?” Your answer will reveal what you’re living for in that moment. Something else has captured your heart more than God, and you’re seeking a false refuge; that is idolatry. What’s captured your heart more than God?
8. Anger is Often Just a Fruit: It usually has fear at the root and more specifically, it is the fear of man. While anger may be all we can see at times, at the heart of it is a fearful, insecure, unsafe, untrusting heart looking for something from man that only God can satisfy. Learn to love God more with reverent awe and fear because then you’ll learn to need people less. Remember that perfect love casts out fear (1 John 4:18) and that you are perfectly loved by your heavenly Father. What are you really afraid of deep down in the innermost being of your heart?
9. Anger Can Be Righteous: Ephesians 4:26 says, “Be angry and do not sin.” You express righteous anger by becoming angry about what angers God. Jesus died not only to free you from sinful anger but to enable you to be angry with God not at God. Is your anger expressed righteously or sinfully? How can you tell? Would others say the same?
10. Anger Must Be Surrendered: The only way out is to surrender your anger to God. Do not control or manage it in your flesh. Let the Spirit move you to action or bring you to brokenness. God is the judge, not you or me (James 4:11–12). Are you ready to step down from the throne of your mini judgment seat and allow God to be God? Remember, “vengeance is mine,” says the Lord (Romans 12:18–21).  
Are you ready to humble yourself in your broken state and surrender your sinful anger to God? Know that He will give you grace in your time of need (Isaiah 66:2b; 2 Chronicles 16:9; James 4:6). So, if you are ready, repent, ask God and those you have offended to forgive you, and walk in victory over the sinful anger that’s held you captive for so long.

The Power of Sin

We teach that the believer battles against an inner power which the Bible calls "sin." In Romans 7:23 Paul writes, "But I see a different law in the members of my body, waging war against the law of my mind, and making me a prisoner of the law of sin which is in my members." Notice this power or law of sin is not in the believer's mind where his thoughts are generated, but in his body. It is very much like a foreign agent which indwells his body, but not his soul or spirit. Your mind is at war against this power. "But, I am afraid, lest as the serpent deceived Eve... your mind should be led astray" (2 Cor. 11:3).
     When you have a war going on at least two sides must be represented. The power of sin obviously sides with Satan, and your mind fights against this power; therefore, whose side is your mind on? God's! It has to be, else there would be no war inside you. You "have the law of God written on your mind" (Heb. 10:16). You have a "sound mind" (2 Tim. 1:7 KJV).
     However, most Christians have been taught that our war within is a civil war, that you fight against yourself. They interpret every verse which speaks of our inner struggle as if an "evil" side of the believer fights against his "good" side.
     Webster's definition of the word PERSONIFY is "to represent as a person." In GMI's teaching, we identify the power of sin in the believer by personifying it. We teach that sin has an intellect and two ingenious techniques by which it "wars against" the Christian's mind. One, it presents thoughts to the believer's mind using first person singular pronouns (I, me, my, myself, etc.). Second, it uses the flesh patterns in the believer's brain as a channel through which to present thoughts to his mind. Are we correctly interpreting the Word? Let's see.
     By studying Phil. 3:4-8 one can discern that the Bible calls the old ways you and I have learned through walking in the world "flesh." Psychology would term these "memory traces in the brain." By limiting its communications with the believer's mind to these flesh patterns and employing only first person singular pronouns, the power of sin can present thoughts which are not only familiar, but seem as though they are being generated by one's own mind. Once the believer "sets his mind" on them and accepts them they become his thoughts and he is deceived into "doing the very thing he does not wish" (Rom. 7:15).
     A man who had his Ph.D. from a well-know seminary said to me, "Bill, in your teaching you are personifying sin by stating that the believer has a foreign power in his body which gives thoughts to him seeking to influence him to do evil. To my knowledge this has never been taught by the church." He wasn't hostile, just making an observation. I pointed out it had been taught to the church...by Paul, who, via the Holy Spirit, was the doctrine's principal penman. But, somewhere along the line we have ceased to teach it, and the result has been defeated, impotent believers, a far cry from the first century church.
     A tool which every Christian layman should have is An Expository Dictionary of New Testament by W.E. Vine. Vine explains that the Greek word HAMARTIA (which translates to the English "sin") is a noun while HAMARTANO (also translated "sin") is a verb. In Romans 6:14 where Paul writes, "Sin shall not be master over you," "sin" is a noun; while in verse 15, "Shall we sin...?" it is a verb in Romans chapters 5-8 the word sin appears 41 times, once as a verb, forty times as a noun. Why is this important? Because if one interprets the word "sin" in Romans 5 through 8 as a verb he will never understand these chapters which are so vital to walking in victory.
     Through hearing hundreds of sermons and thousands of conversations in which sin was used as a verb, you and I have come to perceive the word "sin" only as an action word. Thus, when we read it in our Bibles we commonly perceive it as a verb.
     It is critical that we understand this. In Rom. 5:21; 6:12, 14, 17; 7:11, 14, 17, 20, 23, 25; 8:2; 1 Cor. 15:56; Heb. 3:13; 11:25; 12:4; Jas. 1:15b Vine states of the noun HAMARTIA, "THIS GOVERNING PRINCIPLE IS PERSONIFIED." How can sin be personified, be "represented as a person?" It generates thoughts and presents them to your mind for your consideration as if they were your own thoughts! Incorrectly interpreting "sin" as a verb in these sixteen verses would have a similar effect on a Christian's life as the student who never learned his locker combination. Instead of growing to maturity he spins his wheel.
     Sin personifies your extinct "old man" who was crucified in Christ. Sin feeds thoughts to your mind as if it were the old man generating the ideas (Rom. 7:20). You'll think you are experiencing a monologue when in fact it's a dialogue (parallel Rom. 7:15, 17, 20). That is the way sin has deceived many Christians into teaching that the old man is still alive. They cite isolated verses in attempting to explain their experience. This is called "proof texting" and is not legimate biblical interpretation. No one can accurately interpret Romans 5-8 verse by verse and prove the old man still lives. It states that he died in Romans 6:2, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 11, 13, et.al. One life has resurrection power, Christ. Since the old man cannot resurrect himself we must search the Word to see what God identifies as our opponent within. Romans 5-8 says it is a power called "sin" (the noun).
     As new men, we must be discerning about which thoughts originate in our minds and which ones are from this power, sin. In 2 Cor. 10:5 Paul writes, "...we are taking every thought captive to the obedience of Christ."
     We have three sources of thought: our sound mind, the Holy Spirit and the power of sin. The thoughts from the Holy Spirit and our sound mind are godly. 1 John 3:9 says the new man cannot sin. This means the new man's mind cannot generate sinful thought, but it can surely receive sinful thought from the power of sin and put it into action. To prevent this we must "take [sin's] thoughts captive to the obedience of Christ" and act like we are dead to them (Rom. 6:11-12) but "alive to God" (Rom. 6:13). By employing this battle tactic "sin [the noun] shall not be master over you" (Rom. 6:14) deceiving you to sin (verb).
     Where can this power reside if I am indeed a new man? It lives within your body. The reason it can live there is because your body is not yet saved. It's dying, but will be saved at the rapture (Rom. 8:23b). Your body is not evil, just condemned because it's earthly. Even though it is the temple of the Holy Spirit, it can never enter into the presence of God until it's changed.
     This power is an agent of Satan. Sin (the noun) entered the world at the fall when Adam sinned (verb) (Rom. 5:12). Your body inherited it through your dad's body and originally from Adam's body. (This is one reason why it is imperative to understand that Jesus had no earthly dad. Sin didn't indwell him. It can personify itself. It has intelligence. It obeys its master, Satan. It can put thoughts into your mind. It seeks control.
     We are the only Bible some folks ever read, so when we allow the power of sin to control our behavior it damages Jesus' credibility. The higher profile Christian who publicly falls, the greater the smear of Jesus' credibility. PLAYBOY prints the lurid details and sin suggests to many Christians that they should read the article and see the photos so they can "be informed." If the world sees us carrying out sin's suggestion, we add to the smearing of Jesus' good Name. Then they have more "proof" Christianity is a farce.
     The power of sin strives to lead us into sinning so people will see little in us that will give Jesus credibility. More and more Christians are tubing it as God allows Satan to increase the pressure in these last dark days; but, along with this He is revealing more of Himself to those who hunger for Him. I grieve for the men and women who have "yielded their members to the sin [the noun]" (Rom. 6:13) to blight Jesus' integrity before men. We do not condemn them, only what they have done. By dwelling on sin's thoughts, they "did the very thing they did not wish" (Rom. 7:15) to satisfy the flesh. There, but for the grace of God, go I; but by that grace I do not have to give in to the power of sin's urgings. "For sin [the noun] shall not be master over you" (Rom. 6:14). "He who has died is freed from sin [the noun]" (Rom. 6:7). "So consider yourselves to be dead to sin [the noun], but alive to God" (Rom. 6:11). It is only in following the imperative of these verses that we can realize consistent victory over sinning (the verb).
     Sin (the noun) cannot master you (Rom. 6:14). It cannot make you sin. Jesus said, "A house divided against itself cannot stand" (Lk. 11:17). You are not divided against yourself! God has not set you up to guarantee failure! You have one Master (Jesus). Ignore sin's thoughts which seek to control you and by Christ's life, walk in victory. You are dead to sin (the noun) so act like it. Let Christ express His life through you.